About The Unconventional Route

What’s this blog all about?

Having a good time figuring out for ourselves what we can do to get slightly closer to winning at life.

Let’s break that down:

  1. Have a good time. If you’re not having a good time improving your life, you’re doing it wrong.
  2. Figure out for ourselves. You can start by figuring out for yourself what this means.
  3. Slightly closer. Better to take small steps. That way you don’t trip and hurt yourself. You’ve got time.
  4. Winning at life. However you decide to define “winning at life.”
Kim piggybacking on Chris at our wedding

Who are you?

We’re Kim and Chris, a recently-married couple from Vancouver, Canada.

I, Chris, am mostly responsible these days now that Kim’s moved on to work on bringing people closer together over food and deal with Zac.

If you’re bored enough to want to know more about me and my backstory, read about my pretirement and my personal user manual.

And if you want to be as happy with your partner as we are pretending to be in the photo above, I strongly suggest trying daily gratefuls.

What are your qualifications?

Kim has a Spanish degree. I studied Commerce.

We started this site as an off-the-beaten-path travel blog in 2018, when we fled to Medellin after getting booted from our apartment in Vancouver. It’s since morphed into an offbeat self-help site. Somehow, over 150,000 people read every month. But that could be 90 percent bots, for all we know.

And maybe that’s our one strength?

We don’t pretend to be know-it-alls or act like we’re anything we’re not. Somehow, that’s been working wonderfully for our lives.

“Just go to sleep, you tiny little devil.”

What’re you up to now?

As I write this at the end of August 2021, I’m sitting on my computer updating my About Page.

We’re living in Vancouver for the summer and getting used to our new roommate, Zac. He’s selfish, never leaves us alone, and keeps us up all night. Parenthood’s just as great as all the self-justifying moms and dads say it is.

I’m taking a bit of a break from my once-every-less-than-you’d-like newsletter, Consider This to consider things less and enjoy things more—things like Zac, summertime, volleyball, and updating About pages.

Also, when I can have the place to myself, I’m having too good of a time talking to myself in the form of filming YouTube videos like this one in which I open my own mind.

In October, as long as Zac’s ok with it, we plan on returning to our second home, Cape Town, South Africa.

Other things we’re doing:

  • Researching, Writing, and Taping: How to take things less seriously.
  • Watching: Gomorrah and, our absolute favorite, The Challenge.
  • Reading: Funny non-fiction, like The Disaster Artist.
  • Struggling With: The name, “The Unconventional Route.” The point isn’t to be “unconventional” but think for yourself. I can’t find a better name, and domain, though.

What should I do next?

Do you want to join the good times figuring out how to be great at life?

Step 1:

Subscribe to Consider This.

Less often than you’d like, you’ll get a quick, new idea that challenges your regular way of thinking. Previous ideas include sleeping on the floor, grown-up self-motivation, and (re-)training your taste buds.

Step 2:

Reply to the welcome email’s two questions to quickly tell me about yourself.

Only about 4,000 people have subscribed so far, so I’m not yet fed up with strangers emailing me and enjoy responding to every non-spam email I get.

34 thoughts on “About The Unconventional Route”

  1. Hi Chris and Kim,
    Really enjoying your blog. I was searching for Mexico City recomendations and was very pleased by your submissions on what to do and where to stay. We leave in October for 2 1/2 month in Mexico house sitting and exploring.

    We are a retired couple from Vancouver and have traded home and possessions for 2 suit cases and two back packs. We have been to many places in the world traveling and housesitting. We write about our experiences here: http://www.lifephasenext.com.

    We look forward to following you along.

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  2. Love your blog! We’ve started to use it nearly exclusively after our trip to Cartagena (way too touristy) left us in search of the unconventional route ourselves. Look forward to following along!

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    • Thanks so much Michelle! Yes, I thought the exact same when I took my parents to Cartagena. So many more authentic places in Colombia to be discovered. Will you make it to the Pacific Coast? Happy travels!

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  3. Hi there Chris & Kim,

    Firstly I would like to thank you for the fabulous review and amazing comments of Wildebraam Berry Estate, we hope that your blog will entice many other to visit us for the Wildebraam Experience. We really hope that you both will join us again in the picturesque Hermitage Valley of Swellendam. I cant stop reading your amazing blogs, you two are really inspiring.

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  4. Hello Kim and Chris,
    I just subscribed to your blog. My husband and I started a travel blog about 7 months ago. https://oopswrongturn.com/
    I found you by doing research for one of our next adventures. We are signed up to do the Put Foot Rally starting in Cape Town. I enjoyed reading your blog and found lots of good information!
    Thanks, Tam Faukner
    OopsWrongTurn.com

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  5. Hey guys, just found your blog, fellow Vancouverite (West End). I moved from Vancouver to Mexico 7 years ago due to a chronic mood disorder centering around lack of high quality of light and too much rain. Living in Mexico pretty much alleviated all my symptoms. Now I am looking at Medellin as my next “out of the box” experience. How would you compare it to Vancouver for brightness- sunshine and rain. I love warmer temperatures, green space and the cosmopolitan feel Medellin has to offer. Thank you for providing so much information on your blog. Raymond

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  6. Hey Raymond! Thanks for your comments. And a great choice for moving down to Mexico. Whereabouts were you living? Medellin has pretty fantastic weather all year round and is nothing like the weather in Vancouver. It’s relatively dry and can reach highs of 25-30 during the day but because of the elevation, its pleasantly cool at night. When it rains, it pours and often comes with thunder and lightning but it never lasts very long. Air pollution can be poor at times so pick your accommodation wisely.
    Good luck and enjoy Colombia!
    Kim

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  7. Hello, hope all is well. I will be going to Mexico City next weekend. I have a few questions to ask you guys. Firs question is do you know how far the Estadio Azteca is from the Mexico City Airport? And my second question is what documents are needed to fly out of mexico city airport to the United States of America? And do I need to fill out a special form to give to customs before exiting the airplane in USA? Thank you have a good evening.

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  8. Hi Jose! Thanks for your comment. The docs you need traveling into the US will depend on the passport you hold. I’m sure a quick Google search will give you the answer you’re looking for. As for Estadio Azteca, it will depend on the time of day but it looks to be about 20km from the airport…so it could be as little as 25 mins but likely more. Enjoy DF!

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  9. Hi Kim and Chris! My husband, Ryan, and I discovered your blog when we were living in Medellín earlier this year. Thanks for all of those tips on the hikes!

    Have you ever thought of housesitting or petsitting? When I was reading your About page and seeing how Chris is always looking for ways for savvier savings, I wanted to share a post we wrote about our experience with TrustedHousesitters.com. Ryan and I have been traveling full-time for two years, and only discovered housesitting last year. In 2019, it saved us $7000 in rent. We find longterm pet sits, 3-18 months, and have now sat in Colombia, Panama, Costa Rica, and Mexico. It might be something for you both to consider if you haven’t thought of it yet. It’s such a relief to begin in a new country, knowing exactly where you’re living and can settle in an immediate routine.

    Safe travels, we love your blog! Let us know if you’re in San Miguel de Allende 🙂

    Sincerely,
    Alex (another hapa) with her gringo husband, Ryan. “Pretired” as well, and “flexpatting” abroad like you guys! Thanks for all of the new vocab 😉

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  10. Hey guys! Sorry for the late reply.
    I’m glad you found our Medellin content helpful!
    Thank you for the link to your article! It sounds like you guys have made it work. We signed up for Trusted Housesitters last year but didn’t really use it because we couldn’t find places where we could stay for long periods of time (~6 months) and in cities. But we’re definitely open to the idea because rent can definitely add up. And I appreciate a fully-stocked and beautiful kitchen! 😉
    We’ll definitely let you know if we come to San Miguel de Allende. Are you guys there FT?
    Saludos from windy Cape Town!

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  11. Hi Chris and Kim! I’m currently planning for my family’s trip to Marrakech and happened upon your very detailed and useful article. I can’t seem to open the free map. I tried it on my computer first, then on my phone. Would you mind helping me out? Many thanks!

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    • Hi Janine, thanks for letting us know! I just sent you an email with the link. It should be up and working again now. Enjoy your time with your family in Marrakech. 🙂

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  12. Hi, so happy I found your blog this morning! We are newly blended family with three kids (9, 8, and 5) living what appears to be a pretty mundane life in Minneapolis, but already plotting our early retirement and travel adventures. Which will likely happen when kids are done with high school, because we couldn’t up and leave with them now due to the other set of parents, and besides it sounds hellish to travel with them at this point anyway. Many more thoughts on that but I’ll keep it brief. Let us know if you’re ever passing through MN, I’ve browsed through some of our city’s tour books and wouldn’t/haven’t done most of the things in them despite being a lifelong resident. There is cool stuff here, it’s just harder to find 😉

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    • Thanks for your comment, Kelly! I’m sure the kids will be done highschool before you know it. Any idea where you want to retire or travel to? Chris and I will definitely let you know if we pass through MN to get your tips and recommendations. Cheers!

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  13. Hi Chris and Kim!

    I’m Alex from London and I’ve just been reading you blog “11 Off-the-Beaten Path Things to Do in Coron and Busuanga Island’. You mention that hiring a moped is a must – I’m excited by this but want to know if you used it to get around the island too, e.g. when you went up to the north of the island, such as when you went kayaking in North Busuanga?

    If so, is it a long ride and are the roads as safe as you say? I’m visiting Coron with my girlfriend in a few weeks, so any help would be amazing.

    Thank you in advance.

    Alex

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    • Hi Alex! Sorry for the delay in getting back to you. We just got back from Rwanda. We did use our motorcycle to get around in North Busuanga and felt safe. We left our bigger bags with Boyet but some people on the post have mentioned that he might not be the best person to rent from now. Either way, the roads were totally fine and we felt safe riding up to go kayaking in the north. Please let us know how you get on, have a wonderful trip!

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  14. Another Canuck here, spending some time in Colombia. Ran across your site while looking for ideas of what to do in Medellin. It was very helpful. We have now been in Medellin for a week and will be heading out to the coffee region in a couple of days. Keep posting your tips and good luck in reaching your plans.

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    • Hey JC, thanks for comment! You made an excellent call to escape the most depressing time of year in Vancouver 🙂 Enjoy the coffee and let us know if you discover anything cool and unique during your travels. Saludos!

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  15. Hi, thanks for all your tips on your blog. My boyfriend and I moved to Cape Town from France two months ago. We’d like to stay at least one year. Your blog was so helpful to find an accommodation. Among all tips you mentioned in your blog, what is your favorite healthy restaurant here ? Kim, for buying a beautiful dress, what brand/store do you recommend to me ? Hope you enjoy your time here in CT. Thanks so much !

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    • Hi Amelie, sorry for the late reply. I’m not sure how I missed this! Thanks for your comment. Are you still in Cape Town? We just got back to Vancouver after an extended trip due to lockdown. As for dresses, I like Hannah Lavery and August 1983, both from South Africa. Enjoy your time in one of our favorite cities!

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  16. I am
    In love with both of you your new age souls . It’s like I just lived my life vicariously through. Both of you and a big congratulations on the most luckiest baby to enter our world and have you as parents what a great path you created For the a he/she thank you for doing this I will spread your word for ever hooked . One last thing the rut I am. Now gonna move forward thanks to both of you .

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  17. Enjoyed all your tips. Thank you. Just returned from Medellín in February from a fantástic week plus stay and am returning in mid July– for a year! So many questions….any advice would be very welcome. Thank you, Chris from Chicago

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  18. Hi Chris,
    I found it hilarious reading through the comments on peeing (I sit-down FYI 🙂
    I’m a product designer/manufacturer also from Vancouver, BC. I’ve been looking for someone to promote my new products as an “influencer”. I was wondering if you have done this before and what the result have been? This will be my very first time doing this.
    Please let me know,
    Fara
    BTW, I’m still working on my website.

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  19. Amazing website, attitudes, and perspectives. I also agree that people bond over food !

    Thanks for your positivity and love

    I also retired early and am traveling the wastelands in search of adventure, fortune and glory !

    You two inspire me and I learn from your vibes ; it will help grow my website and brand along the same way and manner as yours !!!!

    Do you have Instagram ??

    Theo Traveler
    Ig FlagWithoutBorders , TravelsOfTheo

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  20. Hey guys,
    Your ideas are so fresh! It is great to see how your posts are much more authentic than your garden variety travel blog! Great job.
    I would love to contribute with pro bono articles, if you’re interested.
    As far as credentials, I have been a digital nomad since… well, for a really long time 🙂 and my next adventure will be São Paulo, Brazil.
    Drop me a note if you are interested!

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  21. Hi guys, LOVE this blog. I found it after researching Envigado to stay, after my 3 trips here staying in Laureles/Estadio. The article was great, and solidified my reason to stay, now that I know whats happening more than my sole visit about 1 week ago (i’m back in the states). But the reason for this long query is that I wanted to venture into AirBNB, and wanted some advice from you on what would make people, such as yourself, want to keep coming back to my apartment, and how to provide the best experience. Or maybe any references you may have. Thank You.

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